My sister is the one to cut herself at school so they would call my dad to come in. Why didn’t she call my mom? She lives right down the street from her high school…why cut yourself for the first time at school…how did the school go about finding out…why go through all this? For my dad’s attention.
My dad cut her off from all money—trust, college savings, will, checkings.
She’s been trying to convince him to give her money so she can spend it on “school, food, clothes, etc” per her letter to my dad.
Now keep in mind my parents are divorced. So hypothetically everything would be 50/50 between my mom and dad right? So why doesn’t my mom pay for something…? She settled for $650K. My dad literally paid her that amount within a month and she’s still pushing my sister to get money from my dad? Is she that greedy? What’s she using the money for? Is she still dating her dirty human being of a boyfriend?
What bothers me most is if I talk to my mother about the slightest substantial thing she gets defensive, talks shit about my dad and yells at me for “being exactly like your dad. He gives you money and you’re his slave? You little rat.” She’s called me that before. She said I’m stupid. She doesn’t wanna talk about the real problem that is my sister is sliding down this slope and she doesn’t realize she needs to get up and catch herself.
She’s the definition of ABG. I understand black sheep of the family. My brother is getting straight A’s at the all boy’s school. I graduated cum laude at my all girl’s school. She failed out of her private school, failed out of her public school and is now going to a continuation high school. Nothing wrong with that except eventually, people go back to their public school. She didn’t want to—“it’s too hard…” Are you serious…? Does middle child syndrome go to this extent?
My dad is so sad. And whenever I talk to him I just feel like breaking down and crying for him. He’s so worried about her. He can’t talk to her because she’s switched numbers. When I called her she called me a hoe and slut and hung up on me.
She’s gotten a huge tattoo on her back from some friend of her. She’s under 18…she got half naked in front of this person…I was more pissed about that than her tattoo…it’s disgusting…thinking of your little sister getting half naked for some older guy. She only dates people older than 18 that are high school drop outs.
Where is she going with her life? My brother and I can’t be the ones to support her when she’s in her mid 30s and not working. She’s gonna be a minimum wager in a family of high expectations and hard work.
I’m here 375 miles away wanting to go home to slap some sense into her. When will she learn…?